~The Withered Heart Of A Pushover~

بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Dengan menyebut nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Penyayang

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Salam Sejahtera Keatas Kamu, Dan Rahmat ALLAH Keatas Kamu serta Barakah ALLAH Jua Atasmu

Pernah tak korang nampak seseorang yang membiar dirinya dibuli oleh rakan-rakan sekeliling

Ataupun selalu jawab ya dan mengangguk kepada setiap arahan dan perintah tanpa sebarang bantahan

Membiar dirinya diperlakukan dan diperlekehkan

Menjadi peacekeeper dan elak jadi warlord

Membiar dirinya dipotong sewaktu berbaris di barisan yang panjang

Mahupun mengatakan perkara diatas itu semua perkara picisan dan tak besar

Pernah tak?

Diminta korang mesti pikir camni

WOW!  PENYABAR GILA INSAN TERSEBUT

Ya ka penyabar???

Dear beloved readers, actually that kind of person is actually what we called a pushover

Do you know what a pushover is???

Well, a pushover is a person or a group of people who let themselves to be walkover by the people and society that surrounds them. They are the type of people who always says yes rather than saying NO.

Orang-orang situasi diatas tulah dipanggil pushover…

Orang-orang camni selalu sangat dibuli dan disuruh buat kerja itu dan ini, tanpa membantah dan tanpa mengatakan tidak. Orang-orang camni selalunya dikategorikan dalam personaliti melancholic dan phlegmatic <correct me if I’m wrong>.  Selalunya diorang cepat simpati, pessimist dan selalu letak hal orang lain dahulu daripada mereka… they are also have a big heart <too big for their sake>

Ya, memang seronok dapat kawan sebab diorang selalu tolong korang bila dalam kesusahan… tambahan diorang tak membantah… tapi kesian kat orang-orang camni…

Nak taw tak kenapa…

Sebenarnya, eventhough they never say NO and ALWAYS SAYS YES, actually, what lies within their hearts is actually to say NO…  it’s actually a health problem… a sociopsychological health problem… because they usually will be stressed and distressed.. depression is one of the major psychological problem this kind of people have… and its kinda of hard to see due to the fact they always wear a smiley mask and beneath the fake smile is a face bursting with tears…

Memang la seronok bila the people surrounds us perceive us a good person, but actually the heart is actually withering away…

Stop letting other people control your life and start take control of it…

Sometimes it’s better to help yourself, put yourself first and put others seconds…

It’s great to be the good person but it’s much better to be a person with a blooming heart

Stop being a pushover… try to say no sometimes and let yourself being free, rather than let oneself to be captured and walk over by the people surround you... let your hearts blooms before it withers away...

There difference between doing thing out of something and doing it out of nothing…

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This entry is not directing to anybody and its general. Most of my friends would say this pushover character is actually me… well my answer is yes and no… I used to be that kind of pushover guy… but I kinda removing that character bit by bit…not just my friends, my family also says the same thing... and, its not only saying to the pushovers it also towards the pushover friends… if you guys know your friend is a pushover… help him rather than taking advantage of him/her… having a big heart is not about helping people all the time... its about helping yourself and the people around you...

so have a  heart

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