LEARN TO LET GO

ASSALAMUALAIKUM WARRAHMATULLAH HIWABARAKATUH

Learn To Let Go

Huhuhu (T_T)…. Menangis 7 hari 7 malam pon takkan ubah kenyataan… bersedih 24 jam dalam 7 hari pon takkan ubah situasi yang dilalui sekarang… dan, bermurung seharian pon tidak guna kerana benda dah berlaku tetap akan berlaku…. Doa apa pun takkan ubah kenyataan tersebut… the only you can do is to let it go… and just let it go….

Things happen, bad things… You did a mistake, so what! Everyone does… what need to do is repent not to mourn… that what you need to do…

People came and go… some just lost in sight, some lost in mind… and some died… People come and peoples go… remember those that are lost in sight, and kept them close to your heart…

Things been stolen, things been taken and some are lost… so what? Buy new ones… don’t made life a hectic just because you lost some stuffs.

Try to learn to let go…

Ada satu kisah ingin dikongsi bersama…

Pada suatu hari, ada satu orang tua ini, nak naek bus… tetiba, waktu pakcik naek tangga kat bus tuh, selipar dia terjatuh satu. Tapi, tak sempat nak amek, koz pintu bus da tutup. Pakcik hanya mampu tengok selipar dia makin mengecil dari sudut pandangan…

Tetiba, pakcik nie, amek selipar lagi sebelah n buang ke luar….

Hah??? Pelikkan….

Sorang pemuda dalam bus nie, kehairanan, kenapa pakcik nie buang selipar lagi satu…

Nak taw jawapn dia…

“sebab, kalu sesapa yang jumpa selipar saya, boleh guna… dan apa guna selipar sebelah kepada saya…”

Haha… okey, from the story… apa korang paham???

Well, from the story, kita taw, pakcik tersebut kehilangan suatu benda, yaitu  sebelah selipar. Nampak tak pa dia buat… he threw the other pair… sebab, agar orang lain, a.k.a possibly the homeless, bleyh guna…

And eventhough he lost something, he doesn’t take it as a bad thing, but rather as a blessing…

We lose things all the time. We grieve and mourned, but we tend failed to realize that the loss only happens so that positive changes can occur in our lives.

Jangan la selalu assume perkara yang kita kehilangan adalah perkara yang buruk… kerana, it need to happen to make a mature in the sence of spiritually and emotionally… the loss and gain need to happen.

Sedar tak, we tend to take things for granted. We lack in appreciating it when it is infront our eyes and knows… dalam erti kata lain, kita langsung tak bersyukur dengan apa kita ada… bila ‘benda’ a.k.a ‘things’ tu hilang, rosak, mula la kita sedar. And dengan benda nie berlaku (losing),kita bleh belajar our anger, sadness, which in emotional way, we learnt…

It does not stand for losing only, mistakes, people and others things that come buzzing in our life…

Apa2 pon blaku, don’t grieve, mourned, or cry like it’s the of the human existence… you can grieve , you  can cry but don’t, and I repeat, DON’T MAKE IT LIKE IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD.

Macam cerita pakcik tuh, we need to learn to let go… maybe continuation from that incident, pakcik tuh maybe akan dapat selipar/kasut yang lebih elok… mana taw kan…

Apa2 pon, setiap kejadian tuh ada hikmahnya…. ALLAH Maha Mengetahui…. We just need to pray and doa to ALLAH, that anything that happen, theres a good side to it… pray for it…

Allah berfirman dalam surah Al Baqarah ayat 216

Kamu diwajibkan berperang (untuk menentang pencerobohan), sedang peperangan itu ialah perkara yang kamu benci dan boleh jadi kamu benci kepada sesuatu padahal ia baik bagi kamu, dan boleh jadi kamu suka kepada sesuatu padahal ia buruk bagi kamu. Dan (ingatlah), Allah jualah Yang Mengetahui (semuanya itu), sedang kamu tidak mengetahuinya.

Ingat setiap musibah dan dugaan itu (perkara2 yang ‘buruk’ tuh la) ada hikmahnya… ingat, ALLAH akan uji orang yang DIA saying… dan ujian tuh kadang2 untuk menggugurkan dosa2 insan tersebut….

Learn to let go…..

Your past

So that you can move forward towards the future…

Your regrets

so that you can be happier…

Your assumtions

so that you can know the truth

Your problems

so that you can find the solutions

Yourself

so that you can find your true self

In my case, those are what i need to let go.... the regreted past, the assumptions that i always made, the problem that i always despesrately wanted to solve... i truly myself, so that i can become the better person that i want to be, in eyes of my parents, friends, society, religion and in the eyes of ALLAH... no more cries and no more regrets.... ^^

Keep your head up, and forge forward fee-sabeel-illah. Accept yourself and be at peace. Look ahead and smile. Stand up straight, and don’t bow your head except in prayer. Keep praying, learning, thinking, following your dreams, and loving the people in your life.

FIN